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Tuesday, December 20, 2011

A sign of the times

Dear Reader


I walked over to Sam Levy’s Village just after midnight last night to check out the 10 hour party that was happening there in the new car park behind the new Borrowdale Spar. They would not let me in to the gig! I did not have the correct (Fake) ID Card that the under age kids are all organising at Photo World all made legal with the Authentic “Justice of the Peace” Stamp that is doing the rounds!
Young girls and guys all wandering around carrying those ICE Vodka bottles or plastic Coke Bottles with anything but Coke in them - all ages – totally illegal by the way to walk in a public place drinking alcohol – whether you are over 18 or not. Noted a group of 3 guys light up an (obvious) joint going into the place. If I can see that happen within 1 min of being there why can’t the plain clothes Police? The kids were still streaming in and a few were already inebriated at 12.30am. What were they going to be like at the end of the night?

We need to change the whole culture of our youth in Zimbabwe. Many of these youngsters seem to think that they must drink more shooters than their mates and be more drunk than them. So that they can go back home sometime the next day and boast on Facebook about how “Wasted” they were the night before and they actually brag about how they can’t remember anything!

I feel we need a few motivational speakers to address the girls at Chisi and Arundel about the reality of binge drinking and what the young guys really plan to do with these girls early the next morning! – talk to the boys at St Georges and St Johns (etc, etc) about growing up to be responsible individuals – not sheep – any takers? – I suggest one or two Police Representatives be taken along to the school assemblies for this (Shock Treatment) purpose – and preferably on a Friday just before they ask mom and dad to go that special “Wow” night club!
Regards – Mike G

.........To everyone who is proactively doing something to stop this craziness re: drinking and driving. Even more alarming is the age of the girls at the night clubs; some as young as 13 years old!!

Which parents are standing by and allowing this to happen? What happens to those girls when they wake up the next morning and remember what they did whilst under the influence? How many "D&C's" are being performed on teenagers who are pregnant? What shred of self-respect do these girls really have when they can't remember what they did, with whom and when? We are allowing a generation of alcoholics to attend regular training sessions in our night clubs, our homes, our communities and should they forget how to ensure they get themselves into the lifestyle, many need look no further than mum or dad .. or both setting a fine example.

No apologies for being a party pooper ... if my email can prevent one more coffin from travelling to a premature resting place then mission accomplished.

The Western Cape Local Government is running a TV campaign called 'Safely Home' using footage from CCTV cameras mounted on highways in SA. The ads are also on YouTube and are 'not for sensitive viewers or children' and can be seen here http://safelyhome.westerncape.gov.za/galleries/video-gallery
I had noticed the increased presence of police checks when returning from Reps to Kambanji after 9pm. It's reassuring to know they're policing - as is their duty.

The drinking and driving has become way out of control and it's marvellous the community as a whole is making the effort to engage all in the need to curb this dangerous activity.

As to XXXX and her comments: what could be more party pooping than dead/maimed patrons unable to fill her coffers. I'm betting she will not accept with equanimity the results of some drunk crashing into her and maiming her for life. She needs a reminder of her responsibility to the community that fulfils her needs.

It takes a village to raise a child. As a community we have a responsibility to each other, not just the 'child'.
the mere fact that xxxx and whoever else offers kids entrance of $10 for girls and $20 for boys and drink as much as you like, is not acting responsibly on xxxx part! don’t you think? this is just saying drink as much as you like, we don’t care, just pay the entrance. AAARGH!!!

well done for taking initiative!. Now also go for those owners of the establishments they need to be…… named and shamed

If ever you are in comms with the traffic police again PLEASE would you mention the danger of the Harare Mutare road. I don't think I have ever travelled that road without witnessing a dreadful accident. Last week there were FOUR major crashes when we went to Harare and THREE when a friend went a few days later. It is a nightmare.

The minibuses and the big black powerful cars (or similar type) overtake in the face of oncoming traffic or on blind rises/corners and just presume you will find a way to avoid hitting them.

I think the police should have roving vehicles between the towns/cities so there is a presence. If you swerve off the road to avoid having a head on, you have the chance of killing or maiming an innocent bystander/pedestrian. The whole road has become a death trap.


Your reader (whose comments are quoted below) says pub owners are not their nannies may be correct – but the parents are being totally irresponsible and should also be held accountable. The owners of the venues can’t keep track on who is drinking what – but they can do something about it and I have a suggestion. What about an additional tax on anyone with a license to sell booze to cover the cost of additional police people whose sole job it is to stand outside the venues and as the kids come out to leave – follow them to the car and do a breathalyzer if it is deemed necessary and arrest these kids the minute they get into the car and put the key into the ignition. The kids can argue their innocence in court at a later stage. Also institute a HUGE fine like thousands of dollars – an amount that could really hurt the parents and perhaps impound vehicles. The kids however still need to get home coz there is not enough space in the prisons! So maybe cover charges should also include a bus service to do a once round at the end of the evening and take the drunk kids home and drop off the policemen at the end of the shift.

I also know that some of these kids are out of control and there are parents who are unable to discipline them. Be that as it may – if they get drunk and wipe themselves out it is of course sad but so much more sad is the sober responsible person who gets wiped out because they happen to be in the line of fire of the irresponsible drunk!

Warning

Please bring to the attention of friends and others who intend driving into or passing through Ziumbabwe over the festive period, the following details required for the vehicles.


Just because they are driving a foreign registered vehicle does not exclude them from Zimbabwean Regulations.

All vehicles must have white and red reflectors fitted front and rear.

1 x fire extinguisher, 2 x red triangles for each vehicle. If the vehicle is pulling a trailer a set of triangles for that.

A reflective vest.

The police are using any part of the regulations to fine drivers. It may seem petty but they are tasked with road safety and they are out in full strength on all main roads and aare imposing fines for very minimal offences



Sunday, December 18, 2011

Indigenous Trees:

 Why not give some indigenous trees as presents this Christmas? These make unusual gifts and you can enjoy them for years to come. The COSMO Trust Indigenous Tree Nursery has an extensive collection of some 50 species at the end of Fenella Drive, Monavale, (near B.S. Leon Retirement Village) and we provide a data sheet for each species on how to plant, grow and look after your tree as well as its uses and attributes. We are open daily from 8 a.m. to midday and 2  to 4 p.m. For further information contact 0772 772771/0779 260834/0712 636458. benover@zim.co.zw

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Warning to vistors to Zimbabwe by Road

SI 154 Safety Equipment: Friends or family driving into the country?


It’s advisable for visitors with foreign registered vehicles to prepare for checkpoints where they might be asked to show they’re carrying Safety Equipment.

If you know of anyone driving into the country, they’ll thank you for forwarding these details to them:

Fire extinguisher

Mandatory. 1kg (light vehicles). To be SAZ approved. Visitors should carry SABS approved units.

Warning triangle

2 triangles mandatory. Not required to be SAZ approved.

Fluorescent safety jacket

Recommended for own safety but not mandatory (except for travellers to Mozambique).

It’s also advisable to fit a pair of reflectors: white up front, red at the back. Size guide: Circular - 60mm circumference, square - minimum 50x50mm.

Requests for more information welcome, email bigsky@zol.co.zw

Big Sky Supplies – We prepare you for your journey (An AAZ Consul Office)

9 Pomona Shopping Centre (Next to Nando’s)

Phone: (04) 870827/851002

Email: bigsky@zol.co.zw

RADIO RHODESIA

"6:30 Get up up up up up..." This was the wake up call of a rotund fun loving clown by the name of Leslie Sullivan who was the morning man on Radio Rhodesia. Leslie, I am told was quite a night owl and would show up about 45 minutes before Radio Rhodesia went on the air and had a "Power Sleep" waking just in time to get the morning radio show kicked off.
At about 5 minutes to 6 in the morning, the day began on the air for Radio Rhodesia. It started with "A thought for the day", an inspirational message to help face the day. At 6AM the morning call would go out announcing what meter band and wave length the RBC could be picked up on.

When I think of this, somehow the aroma of toast and Jungle Oats come to mind. Between 6AM and 6:30 a short recap of the news and weather forecast for the day were given, some music played and then, 'voila! it was time for Leslie to perform his magic and get the children out of bed with his "Get up up up" routine. He usually followed with a kiddie song like "Teddy Bears' picnic or "Pink Toothbrush" but the greatest was when, once a year, he would play a short piece each morning from a story about a fat Chinese boy who fell down a well but because of his long name lost potential rescuers when he would call out for help. His name that being Nicky Nicky Tembo Oh So Rembo, Ooh Ma Muchi Gamma Gamma Guchi !!

Leslie was always so much fun to wake up to in the morning, it almost took the sting out of having to get ready to go to work or school.

His audience comprised of both parents and children. Later in the morning it was time for another sorcerer to perform his Radio magic, in the form of a kindly chap by the name of Don Burdette. Don had a hospital request show with "Silver Lining" as his theme music. Don showed tremendous empathy for the ailing whether it was a "new mum" at the Lady Chancellor hospital or Lady Rodwell Hospital, or a malaria case in Salisbury Central hospital, maybe Umtali General, The Mater Dei in Bulawayo or Greenwood Park hospital or even someone recuperating at home. Don always saved a special segment for his "Little Horrors", the sick children who were in hospital. Usually he would play Alvin and the Chipmunks. It always perked a person up listening to his kindly voice admonishing you to cheer up and get better soon.

Around noon, shortly after the "Daily Service", a wonderful woman by the name of Beryl Salt would exhort children to "Bring a cushion or a chair right up to the radio", at which time she would read a story with the most amazing professionalism, never mispronouncing a word, stuttering or losing a beat. I will never forget her for she made my childhood so much more enjoyable with her lovely voice.

Around 2PM there was usually a short news update, following which a "Serial" came on. It was usually a radio theatre presentation of a book and so very well done. These programs brought something to look forward to and were seldom missed.

Radio really had an impact on our lives as Television did not come on until 6PM and that was only in the larger cities, until later years as technology became better. It was the great spirit in a small box that penetrated our soul and mind and left that indelible image there. It forced your imagination to take you to places your eye could not see, truly wonderful! Monday nights there was a great show entitled "The Missing Persons Bureau" about an agency that traced folks who had disappeared. Henry Simon, was the director of the bureau.

During the rest of the week several radio drama shows were done usually by some great entertainers like Ken Marshall and his beautiful wife Claire. These folk along with other celebrities not only did wonderful radio dramas but often performed in plays at the well known Reps theatre in Salisbury.

There were many fine voices on the air - one was Gerry Wilmot who left Radio Rhodesia to work for Lourenco Marques radio, I think that was about 1961 or 1962.

My favorite day was Saturday for all the great hit music generally got played. Ian Warren had a show at 9AM playing new songs that were potential hits. Everyone's favorite was none other than Lyons Maid hits of the week. The show was done by Martin Locke and Trig Tregaskis who not only had a great radio voice but held quite an appeal to the young ladies. Much to the annoyance of his wife.

Each week there was a jackpot, and if the top ten hits of the week were predicted correctly the winner would win the amount, or if he or she got the top three correct free ice cream was in the works! How we lived for this show! Martin left the Rhodesian airwaves for a while and Keith Kennedy took over the show. Both gentlemen were excellent at their craft and the show was tremendously successful. Trig took over as DJ on Radio Jacaranda where he remained until he left for South Africa in 1978.

Another great at Radio Rhodesia was a guy that I thought never got enough credit for his excellence and that was Malcolm Russell.

Malcolm had a show called "New Tracks" and it was the last biggie for we young folk on a Saturday morning. The show's theme song was "I Will Follow Him" and was just super. Saturday afternoon at 2PM, a radio game show, "The Eyegene Jackpot", was presented and it was quite enjoyable.

A game show program presented by Mervin Hamilton and Vic Matheson that featured housewives pushing a shopping cart around Meikles gathering groceries without duplicating items in an allotted time, brought excitement to the listeners. It was always quite a rush to listen to.

My favorite was "Forces Requests" with Sally Donaldson on

Saturday afternoons. Sally was a beautiful young woman with a voice to match. She played all the forces favorites and with the escalating terrorist bush war she became very popular as young men went off to defend their country. Dusk was usually falling as we would listen with the lights turned out in our living room. It was so peaceful thanks to our security forces. Sadly Sally passed away a few years ago but her wonderful personality, charm and looks will never be forgotten.

There were several distinguished voices like that of John Bishop and Peter Tobin that graced our airwaves.

As the years passed small stations were set up in the provinces that covered local issues for about 2 or 3 hours on Friday nights. I have a smile on my face thinking of all the fond memories of a wonderful Radio station. My times for the programming may be slightly off bearing in mind all of this happened so long ago and in a land far away!

Thanks to all of these dear people, some still with us, others not but everyone is fondly remembered and never forgotten.
"Why be difficult when with just a little effort you can be bloody impossible"

Thank you to the Unknown Source

Family Notices

BIRTHS




Vic and Jo are over the moon to announce the birth of their first grandchild a beautiful bouncy 9lb12oz boy Eli Ireland to Sean and Shelley in the Uk, congratulations to the two of you we just wish we were closer to share your bundle of happiness !!!





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5) CONDOLENCES

PLEASE MAKE DONATIONS FOR CONDOLENCE MESSAGES PLEASE TO EDITH DULY NURSING HOME edithduly@netconnect co zw



Pam Spencer (nee Ellman-Brown) 96 years- wife of the late Morten Spencer, mother to Pauline Fairlie and the late John Spencer - passed away peacefully in Howick on 11th Nov Rest in peace Auntie Pam love Rich, Jayne and the girls





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SHEILA STEWART



Our Mum passed away yesterday, Friday 9th December at 9 45am She was a young 77

All of her four children Mark, Amanda, Paul & Penny, were around her bed She started to take long pauses between her breaths and then we noticed she hadn't taken a breath for a while, so it was very peaceful



She was widow of the late, Donald, beloved Mum to Mark, Amanda, Paul, Penny and 'Gig' to Amy, Matt, Tim, James, Jonathan, Ben, Joseph and Ella



GARRY AND PENNY BELL

Penny Bell pinkpenguin@smartchat net au



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DEATH NOTICE



ANNA WOOTTEN



Beloved mother of Fergus and Gillian Forbes passed away peacefully on

the 7th of December 2011

All friends are invited to a memorial service at 66 Duncan Road Suburbs at

10 am Monday 12 December 2011 Tea to follow

Contact 09 - 243255

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ANNA WOOTTON , (84) friend of many years, died peacefully after a long battle against cancer on Wednesday, 7th December at her home Anna, you were always cheerful- we will mi you and our joyful hours together Rest in peace! Our heartfelt condolences go to Fergus and Gill

Ulrike and Klaus Leuschner

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"Anna Wootten,



A dear friend and neighbour, a lady of great kindne , and a great character Will be greatly mi ed and always remembered with great affection Deepest sympathies to Gus, Gill and family



David, Lucy, Caitlin, Amelia and Tabitha Findlay (Stamford, UK)"



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Death Notice



Anna Wootten,

Beloved mother of Fergus and Gillian Forbes, passed away peacefully at home on 7 12 2011

Friends are invited to the memorial Service to be held on Monday 12th December at 10 00am at 66 Duncan Road, Suburbs

No flowers by request, donations instead to Bulawayo, SPCA



Phone 243255

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ANNA WOOTTON , (84) friend of many years, died peacefully after a long battle against cancer on Wednesday, 7th December at her home Anna, you were always cheerful- we will mi you and our joyful hours together Rest in peace! Our heartfelt condolences go to Fergus and Gill

Ulrike and Klaus Leuschner

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JENNY BRANKIN



Please can I send my condolences to the Brankin family on their sad

loss of Jenny wife and mother she will be sadly mi ed so sorry about

your loss she passed away at 1 00am on the 30th November2011 Love

Kathy,Dan&Tania

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Fiona Mcgregor Judge



So sad that one of my friends from KG1 at Baines has passed away in NZ So many happy Bulawayo memories Sweet dreams Fiona



Carole Gilbert Broughton, Castlemaine, Victoria



Please could you record my condolences to Arthur Heron's family ?

Arthur was our family butcher for many years, first at the Dundee Butchery and then on his own I remember going into the shop one day and seeing Arthur standing over the Newspaper which was spread out on the floor I asked what on earth he was doing??? he said "reading the paper, my arms have grown too short, I can only read it from up here!!""



I think one of Arthur's sons was at Hamilton with William, our younger son



Val Taylor - RSA

Joseph Marffy

It is with deep sorrow that we have to announce the sudden death of Joseph Marffy on the 29th November 2011 who died of a massive heart attack in his home in England. He is the third son of Laci and Pelline Marffy of the Mvurwi district and will be sorely missed by his family and friends. His funeral will take place on Friday 9th December in England.




Contact: lonegumfarm@iwayafrica.com