HI All – I
have been in comms with Maurice Levy about the incident at H2O last week and I
have taken the following comments from his reply. Regards Mike G
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“....I have looked in to the matter and still digging as I am upset
about it.
1) The perpetrators in the car park did not enter the club and
apparently lurk around other venues harassing people
2) I have placed extra security moving ahead outside to handle and
protect our guests from such abuse
3) I would like to take strong action to prevent this as well as bring
those guilty to book ......”
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To the lady
who made the comments implying that my daughter was inappropriately dressed,
had been drinking and was too young to be there.
If even one
of your MANY theories (ALL IN DEFENCE OF THE BOYS ) where correct are we saying
that the boys behaviour is acceptable. For the record my daughter
is 20 years old , she was dressed more than appropriately and doesn't
drink. It never a ceases to amaze me how when people put information out
to the public to help prevent something like this happening again that you get
people who feel that they need to defend and justify the actions of the guilty
rather than take heed of the advice to a avoid another situation .
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Thanks for following this up with the Levy’s and I am relieved to hear
that they at least sounded concerned. Please re-iterate in your next email that
while readers may have some valid comments about why the young lady was there,
etc, etc – they must NOT take the focus away from the appalling fact that a
bunch of out of hand, alcohol or drugs related, young men threatened this girl
with appalling acts, en masse(how v brave!!) – THEY, AND their parents
are the ones to be charged with such fierce criticism. The girl’s mother
did say in her email that they did not plan for her to be waiting outside –
these oversights occur as any parent of a teenager knows full well. So let’s
focus and discipline these boys before a shocking incident hits our headlines.
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Re the H2O incident with the
Indian youth threatening the girls father with firearms, this in itself is a
criminal offence in the firearms act. It is punishable by court and a firearms
offence carries a mandatory jail term.
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Just a
comment about H2O , on more than one occasions I have seen 15 year olds living
it up inside... what about the age limit? Should this not be the club's
responsibility?
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PLEASE share my comment with everyone too - I hope it
will be supportive to the parents who are probably still distressed by this
incident (as well as, unfortunately, the comments they received from some of
your readers). I agree with the 'name and shame the offenders' comment -
we must do what we can to keep our community safe - and was disappointed
and shocked by the others which seemed to contain an awful lot of BLAMING THE
VICTIMS. In the name of all that is rational and fair, what difference does it
make what the girl was wearing? Are men such vile beings that the sight of
woman in a short skirt compels them to violate?! What an insulting idea to
decent people, both men and women. The parents were very responsible picking
her up and not allowing her to go with anyone else in a car with possible drunk
driver or strangers, but if anyone's parenting is to be called into question it
must be that of the horrible pack of youths that assaulted this family. Some of
those comments to the parents must be so offensive! I am sure that peer-to-peer
enquiries can find out who the culprits are.
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Its all very well and good being holier than thou
about this. I say thank you for the trusting parents who thought that all was
ok in Zim for awakening people to reality! Also all citizens around us must
come to the party and help in case of trouble!!
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I would
just like to say the many of the readers comment on how you could leave your
daughter out at this time, and how she was left alone and how this reflects bad
parenting. I however disagree with these statements ,because how can we have
tabs on our children all the time throughout the day, this is impossible as
teens don't want to be tracked every minute by their parents. There is only so
much a parent can do their side when it comes to things like these, teens
should become aware themselves about the dangers and the precautions to take.
As for the family I’m glad the incident didn't escalate and these thugs should
be named and shamed.
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